Note: I've been too tried to post these days. Here's an awesomely relevant article by someone else
It seems that there is an ever growing stock of older male virgins out there. And if there isn’t, they are at least becoming more apparent. Thanks to the anonymity of the Interwebs and the movie, 40 Year Old Virgin, it has become fashionable for male virgins to present their case to the world and still remain anonymous.
The web is full of male virgins. Just look here and here for starters. I was also part of this club just over a year ago, finally being deflowered at the age of 27.
Even the slew of reality shows which feature some type of geeks, nerds, losers, etc always have some sort of token virgin. Just look at the last season of VH1’s The Pick Up Artist, half of the contestants were virgins, with the oldest being 45!
There is no reason for a guy to remain a virgin into and past his late 20s. The only real exceptions would be some major physical or mental handicap, but that would make up only a small minority of the male virgin population. Most of these guys are your normal average everyday men. Yet, for some reason they just can’t figure out how to get laid. You would think that after so many years, a guy would at least get a little random action or even a pity lay. No, there is something else at work here.
By the way, I understand there may be some of you guys out there who are “saving” yourselves for marriage. This article is not about you, it’s about the guys who want to have sex but can’t. And honestly, as a horny male, I can’t even begin to understand what would posses someone to wait for sex, but that’s another topic for another time.
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Read more ....This post was inspired by the Virgin Round-up being organized by Honey and Lance. It’s a series of blog posts related to the topic of virginity. You can check out some of the other great articles below:
- Holly Hoffman: How my mom helped me lose my v-card
- Bobby Rio: Virgins for Sale
- LisaQ: The Value of Virginity
- Kira: Losing Your V-Card: Big Deal or Big Whoop?
- T: Virginity: A Girl and a Mom’s Perspective
- Infinity: The More Touchy Part of Dating: Sex & Virgins
- Evil Woobie: Why is Virginity a Big Deal Among Filipinos?
- Hot Alpha Female: Lets Talk About Sex…Baby
- Honey: Was Losing My Virginity Worth It?
- Hammer: Why I Don’t Date Virgins
- Lola Sanchez: Virgin Vendetta
- Effigyc: Why Wait? An argument against saving oneself“
- Single Mom Seeking: Why I’m aspiring to be a virgin again
- idatewhite: The Brotha Virgin
- dadshouse: Virginity? It’s So Overrated
- Kiera: Virginity? What’s the Deal?
- NewWrldYankee: You Dragged the Rampaging Virgin Out of Me
- Trixie: The American Virgin
- V-Carded: Virginity Roundtable
- Lance: I’ve Had Sex With Three Virgins and I’m Gonna Tell You About It
It's like football. Initially you can't score. Then the goalless streak gets longer and longer until you wonder if the goal will come. Then when it finally arrives, subsequent goals will follow. Sometimes you will not score for the rest of the season, only to score again in the next. For others, the goals will keep on coming and coming. A lot of blokes will score the odd goal here and there, but in the end, few end up as goalies. (Even goalies score goals.)
The goal can be offside and be allowed to stand. Or it can be a perfectly legitimate goal that doesn't count. it's strange, it's not rocket science, but luck plays a part. Over the course of the season it will even out. The important thing is to get onto the pitch. Beautiful goals or simple bundle-over-the-line - they all count.
And hope to be at the right place and the right time and make that sweet contact.
GOAL!
wtf Cayden. You talk from a lot of soccer experience =)
Sex is just like football: the goal is centrally located. You pass the ball around the pitch, play down the flanks, at the end you want to put it in, right 'there'.
csJoshi,
Hi, I just noticed that you copied my entire article, "The Dilemmas of Male Virgins" on your blog. Normally, I don't mind people taking excerpts or quotes from my articles but copying and republishing the whole thing without giving a hypertext link back to the source isn't considered good blog etiquette in my opinion.
I appreciate that you liked my article enough to post it but could you please at least make a clickable link back to the original article? Otherwise, I'll have to ask you to remove it due to copyright infringement.
I apologize if this seems harsh, but I spent four days working on this particular article and feel that I at least deserve a link back.
Thanks in advance for your cooperation,
Matt Savage
Hey Matt.
Sorry for the inconvenience. Ive edited the post a bit. Ill be more careful next time.
Cheers.
Hi csJoshi,
I just stumbled upon your site and my article again and realized that you still have not given proper attribution back to the original article with a working link.
And since I'm becoming more protective of people copy and pasting my full copyrighted articles without permission first, I'm going to have to ask you to remove my content from your blog. I know it might seem a bit douchey, but I'm a strong believer in giving attribution to original content creators.
Thanks.
Matt Savage
http://themodernsavage.com
Please remove this post or I will be filing a formal complaint with Google for copyright infringement. This is my final warning before I proceed with filing the paperwork next week.
Hey Matt.
It's done.
Cheers